My big guy has a complicated history of spinal injuries (and reinjuries) that initially delayed the start of his professional hockey career, despite his elite hockey IQ, and led to its premature end like three years later. His only standout NHL season ended in a reinjured back and a strained relationship with his team, resulting in his release soon after their botched playoff run. With contenders and playoff-focused teams giving him a wide berth, his only real bid was on underdog or rebuilding teams willing to gamble on a star-quality player with strong metrics but with an extensive injury record and rumored locker room tension. Which uhh didn't happen anyway, leaving him to recover in solitude with zero offers and no open doors back, soon forgotten in the fast-moving world of pro hockey.
It's somewhat sad for him? Sure, he's alive and well (eventually), but for his kind of 'breed,' it's a failure and a big source of shame and discontent. Cause, despite the odds and an unorthodox path to the pros, he had managed to make it to the big leagues and could have been (and had been for a short time) successful if not, largely, for the decisions he made. He understands that pretty well. His real problem wasn't his physical condition so much as the character he adopted in his most fraught moments. Hubris, hyper-vigilance, and over-control, combined with an intellectual mind that bordered on arrogance at times, shone through, often alienating people around him as a result. And you can't have that in a sport where team bonds are an integral part of sports culture and sometimes are immediately linked to team performance. You also can't have a fucked back and a shitty attitude at the same time, like pick a struggle, man. For a guy with high self-reliance and emotional control, he ironically became more prone to crumbling under pressure when it mattered most. Which, funnily enough, led to him crumbling physically as well in the most important moment of his career. And while circumstances played a role in it all, I'd argue a big chunk of the responsibility still lies with him and his choices.
He's made it work for himself after retiring, though. Slaps his backside How many more problems can I fit into this bad boy