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Lol same dude
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I had been talking about my crush on here, and he saw it, so that's the story about how we both ended up confessing and have been dating for almost two years now <3
Aww, that's awesome! Congratulations to you both xxx
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Y'all, I've had a crush on this guy for W A Y too long and he is obviously not interested in me but he still gives me butterflies and I h a t e itttt. Like today, he's in my science class and when the teacher came over to our table (he was across from me) he came over right next to me so he could see better and my heart started beating SO fast ksjdbkchvsdj I don't wanna like himmmmmm. I know he doesn't like me, I knowww but it doesn't make a difference.
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"And when you said hi, I forgot my dang name."
Yes, that's Hamilton. And it's how I feel today. My crush (because this world is confusing and lots of us have different preferences, he's a guy, I'm a girl) is one of my closest friends (I've been friends with him for three years, since 8th grade, we r sophomores now, I'm almost 16), and I'm nearly 98% percent certain he likes or is at least interested in me. But he won't admit it, and I'm falling hard but I can't keep doing this. We flirt, and then we get ignored. He stands up for me, but then teases me in a slightly mean way (actually almost punched his best friend for making me cry, I'm a Christian and his friend said I "couldn't possibly love Jesus" if I thought BLM was good and supported them. THE WHOLE POINT OF MY RELIGION IS LOVING OTHER LIKE JESUS LOVED US, but I digress.. Not all of us are like that but in west Kentucky, unfortunately, many are…. BUt yeah, he almost punched him but another guy held him back because we were at school, I've never seen him like that before) I can't keep this uppp. ANd yes I have forgotten stuff before due to him. I'm old school so I'd like him to make to first move but I can't keep waiting. He makes me so nervous, but I can be myself with him. He makes me think.
And I'm falling hard. I've tried to get over him a million times, but I can't.
Idk, I'm sorry this was a mess.
Keep falling. It's normal to be in love. What you described is how me and my boyfriend of three years started out. It's different with everyone. The best relationships, romantic or otherwise, are all best if started out as friends. Take your time with each other. Eventually you'll both realize that there exists something between you two that's special, and then you'll want to grow on that. It's not about rushing into it, take your time. If they love you and you love them, you'll wait until it feels right. Patience is key. Best of luck darling!
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hey winter, is it a thing to like two people at the same time
Yes, but here's what I've been told by people older and wiser than me. If you really liked the first one, you would have never liked the second one. There would have been no need for the second.
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I, uh, have to disagree with you there, Winter. I may not have been alive as long as some, but I do know it is perfectly logical and reasonable that someone could like two people equally at the same time, with the same desire for commitment for both of them. Polyamory is a thing, and it's not to be confused with polygamy. It is literally 'Many loves.' It's a natural thing, and it doesn't mean you love one less than the other.
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I, uh, have to disagree with you there, Winter. I may not have been alive as long as some, but I do know it is perfectly logical and reasonable that someone could like two people equally at the same time, with the same desire for commitment for both of them. Polyamory is a thing, and it's not to be confused with polygamy. It is literally 'Many loves.' It's a natural thing, and it doesn't mean you love one less than the other.
yesyesyesyesyesyes you are exactly right.
I completely forgot about polyamory. Thank you for bringing that to my attention. It really all depends on the person who is feeling the attractions. I apologize for any inconvenience and confusion that I may have caused.
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It's perfectly alright! Most people don't really think about polyamory, and as you said, it really is up to the person experiencing the attraction to reflect and conclude whether it is true polyamory or not.
That is also very true!
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oh tyty both of youuuu~
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Keep falling. It's normal to be in love. What you described is how me and my boyfriend of three years started out. It's different with everyone. The best relationships, romantic or otherwise, are all best if started out as friends. Take your time with each other. Eventually you'll both realize that there exists something between you two that's special, and then you'll want to grow on that. It's not about rushing into it, take your time. If they love you and you love them, you'll wait until it feels right. Patience is key. Best of luck darling!
Thank you. I needed to hear that. I guess I often feel like I want a label so that I know I'm not completely helpless, that he is feeling what I am too. I think he is, but I wanna know for sure. (Also I was ssoooo pms-ing yesterday, haha so that explains a lot.) I want to stop myself from falling so much but I see him and my heart goes crazy. I know love is choice more than a feeling and I think I choose to love him a long time ago and my heart won't let me back out.
I will, thank you. I'll keep falling. I'll keep waiting. I'll keep loving.
Because, yes, I think I'm in love with him.
Sorry I know that was dramatic.
A quote from me:
A person in love is no simple thing 🙃
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Amen! Hahaaaa
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jdajknsdicehfceu i became friends with v pretty girl today. she has purple hair and is bi and has a pretty nose piercing and i just- ShE iS sO pReTtY and now i have a crush on her soooo yea…. i might ask her to hang out some time
i think i've only ever had one genuine crush on anybody but we ended up going to different schools later on. anyways, i'm just gonna talk about him because i miss him so much. First off, he was one of the nicest people I've ever met. He'd always give me his seat if there was no place for me to sit. We also used to sit next to each other on the bus everyday. He gave me music recommendations and one of the bands he told me about is now my favorite. We used to play guitar together after school. Idk what happened but one year after summer break, we kind of drifted apart.
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GUESS WHO JUST GOT A NEW GIRLFRIENDDDDDDDDDD
jdajknsdicehfceu i became friends with v pretty girl today. she has purple hair and is bi and has a pretty nose piercing and i just- ShE iS sO pReTtY and now i have a crush on her soooo yea…. i might ask her to hang out some time
Speaking as a girl, I can give you a little advice.
- Tell her, very straightforwardly, that she looks nice the next time you see her.
- If you ask her to a movie or something, make it clear whether it's a date or just a hangout session. That gray area is no fun for girls (I've been there before, and my friend actually thought we were dating. It was a disaster.), and you've either friend-zoned a nice guy or assumed a friend is your boyfriend.
- Nobody likes an "it's complicated" relationship, so just be direct in general.
Hoping for the best between you two!
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jdajknsdicehfceu i became friends with v pretty girl today. she has purple hair and is bi and has a pretty nose piercing and i just- ShE iS sO pReTtY and now i have a crush on her soooo yea…. i might ask her to hang out some time
Speaking as a girl, I can give you a little advice.
- Tell her, very straightforwardly, that she looks nice the next time you see her.
- If you ask her to a movie or something, make it clear whether it's a date or just a hangout session. That gray area is no fun for girls (I've been there before, and my friend actually thought we were dating. It was a disaster.), and you've either friend-zoned a nice guy or assumed a friend is your boyfriend.
- Nobody likes an "it's complicated" relationship, so just be direct in general.
Hoping for the best between you two!
I'm actually asking her out next time I have class with her (about an hour from now) v nervous and v excited
jdajknsdicehfceu i became friends with v pretty girl today. she has purple hair and is bi and has a pretty nose piercing and i just- ShE iS sO pReTtY and now i have a crush on her soooo yea…. i might ask her to hang out some time
Speaking as a girl, I can give you a little advice.
- Tell her, very straightforwardly, that she looks nice the next time you see her.
- If you ask her to a movie or something, make it clear whether it's a date or just a hangout session. That gray area is no fun for girls (I've been there before, and my friend actually thought we were dating. It was a disaster.), and you've either friend-zoned a nice guy or assumed a friend is your boyfriend.
- Nobody likes an "it's complicated" relationship, so just be direct in general.
Hoping for the best between you two!
I'm actually asking her out next time I have class with her (about an hour from now) v nervous and v excited
Good luck!
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I'm actually asking her out next time I have class with her (about an hour from now) v nervous and v excited
OOOO good luck!! Prayers!!
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guys i- my crush gave me his HOODIE today and wlwknjskjdbjks!!!!! we just swapped hoodies (cuz we're literally the same size) and aaaa it's so warm. he told me i could hold onto ittttt eeeeee and then i got a big hug before he left at lunch. OH YEAH and he paid for my food!! like whaaaa-
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guys i- my crush gave me his HOODIE today and wlwknjskjdbjks!!!!! we just swapped hoodies (cuz we're literally the same size) and aaaa it's so warm. he told me i could hold onto ittttt eeeeee and then i got a big hug before he left at lunch. OH YEAH and he paid for my food!! like whaaaa-
that's so wholesome-
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guys i- my crush gave me his HOODIE today and wlwknjskjdbjks!!!!! we just swapped hoodies (cuz we're literally the same size) and aaaa it's so warm. he told me i could hold onto ittttt eeeeee and then i got a big hug before he left at lunch. OH YEAH and he paid for my food!! like whaaaa-
that's so wholesome-
fxcfgdcyt he's so sweeeetttt auuuuggghhhh. my mom saw me talking to him yesterday and she was like "so who's that bOyYy-" i was like "ohjustmyfriend-" and she did the little eyebrow raisey thingy and said "he's cuuuuuuttteeeeeee!" i was like -_- "momstop-"
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Hnnnnnsfsdhsgg I think I'm in love love with my partner- We were up late messaging and I said something stupid like usual and he goes "lmao. you're amazing." and I grinned so big and literally teared up I was so happy and then I had the realization that I'm gay for this dumbass of all people-
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jsdbhchdsvcjhvs yes, gay. love is beautiful, isn't it?