Okay, so I've said I have an SO. This is only partly true. I just don't know what else to call her. She's polyamorous, and has dated several people before now, but only one person at a time. She says that she loves me and etc. but she rarely acts on it and we act more like we're best friends with benefits, and it slightly hurts when I see her kiss other people but she never- sksksksk… I jUsT wAnT tO fEel wAnTeD…. [even though she says she wants me all the time.] just has mental breakdown and cries
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(Y'all I'm really late to this conversation and I'm sorry to interrupt Idk how I didn't find it before but like
First of all this chat is beautiful and adorable and perfect
Second of all… I think I have a crush on my best friend that I've known since we were 5 and I know she's bi but like Idk if she even likes me or nah but I don't wanna take the risk of asking her out cause it would make our friendship awkward if she said no and I HNGG
Okay sorry for interrupting continue being wonderful)
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Okay, so I've said I have an SO. This is only partly true. I just don't know what else to call her. She's polyamorous, and has dated several people before now, but only one person at a time. She says that she loves me and etc. but she rarely acts on it and we act more like we're best friends with benefits, and it slightly hurts when I see her kiss other people but she never- sksksksk… I jUsT wAnT tO fEel wAnTeD…. [even though she says she wants me all the time.] just has mental breakdown and cries
Um… this might be a stupid advice, but have you tried to talk to her about it?
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(Y'all I'm really late to this conversation and I'm sorry to interrupt Idk how I didn't find it before but like
First of all this chat is beautiful and adorable and perfect
Second of all… I think I have a crush on my best friend that I've known since we were 5 and I know she's bi but like Idk if she even likes me or nah but I don't wanna take the risk of asking her out cause it would make our friendship awkward if she said no and I HNGG
Okay sorry for interrupting continue being wonderful)
Maybe start simple? Like, if you two are besties then maybe ask her if she has a crush on someone? You don’t have to ask her straight forward if she wants to go on a date, you could just ’do some snooping’ and see if she sends out any signals? Or just ask another friend to sneakily bring the subject up with her. That’s what my friend did when my other friend had a crush on a girl and wondered if she was lesbian or not…
Okay, so I've said I have an SO. This is only partly true. I just don't know what else to call her. She's polyamorous, and has dated several people before now, but only one person at a time. She says that she loves me and etc. but she rarely acts on it and we act more like we're best friends with benefits, and it slightly hurts when I see her kiss other people but she never- sksksksk… I jUsT wAnT tO fEel wAnTeD…. [even though she says she wants me all the time.] just has mental breakdown and cries
tell her that you'd rather not be in an open relationship. if it bothers you this much you really shouldn't be in a polyam relationship. if she does love you, she'll drop everyone for you. that's what me and jules did, at least.
Y’all I have tea
On Moops
Ok, so I'm not a person who's confident enough to ask her about this. And it doesn't bother me so much that she's in a relationship with other people, it's just that I don't even know where I exist in her life, because she'll say so many contradictory things about it. IHaveADamProblem, your idea about having a friend subtly ask might actually be a good idea, thank you. But I know she has other people she likes {I mean, she kisses this one guy I know all the time in front of me}. I just… wish I could have that kind of relationship with her as well… without all these complications…
YALL I HATE TO INTERRUPT THIS BUT
I HAVE TEA
YALL I HATE TO INTERRUPT THIS BUT
I HAVE TEA
WHAT IS THIS TEA!!!??? hops anxiously
MOOPS! MOOPS! MOOPS! MOOPS!
So we were sitting on the floor right, gay as can be, and we were sitting so she was basically in my lap and eodkdkgkdjvkfkjddj. And then. Andnsjck and so she was playing with my hair and she stopped and I’m like “what” and she’s like “in my mind I was thinking like MIA YOURE FLIRTING DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMN” and it was hecc y’all don’t understand
And so once she was just like “yeet” and just fzunking Olympic dove on top of me and it’s like fkrkkdekfkkjdhjwnfAnd then so I really wanted to kiss her and I couldn’t and she was like “just fzunking kiss me already” and I’m like hnnnnhnnhnnn I can’t and she’s like “too mcfzunnkibg bad” and I’m like whatever and so eventually I kiss her and she’s very happy for me and all
…sips tea
Angelina
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she’s also literally laying right next to me rn dkfkekckwjxj
Wait reallly!
I wish my iPhone 5 could actually work but nooo the touchscreen isn't reacting so I can't text Em about all this teeaaaa
So we were sitting on the floor right, gay as can be, and we were sitting so she was basically in my lap and eodkdkgkdjvkfkjddj. And then. Andnsjck and so she was playing with my hair and she stopped and I’m like “what” and she’s like “in my mind I was thinking like MIA YOURE FLIRTING DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMN” and it was hecc y’all don’t understand
And so once she was just like “yeet” and just fzunking Olympic dove on top of me and it’s like fkrkkdekfkkjdhjwnfAnd then so I really wanted to kiss her and I couldn’t and she was like “just fzunking kiss me already” and I’m like hnnnnhnnhnnn I can’t and she’s like “too mcfzunnkibg bad” and I’m like whatever and so eventually I kiss her and she’s very happy for me and all
Why does this feel like me and my SO? It's hilarious.
Gulps the tea
GAYS
also i might b videoing julian later if he can which is gna be :))))) gay
:)))
I was talking to my bi friends earlier, and I'm just like, "I'm a bisexual who only acts on her gay side."
Break…up….probably. Do you still like the person you're dating?
not really, i've lost interest and plus they live really far away.
Break up if it's not sparking joy.
(Understands it's probably hard, but think about it please.)
I'm thinking I am and go for the man I like right now, plus he is in my class.
Why are all of my friends bi?? (Not tryna offend anyone, i just think it's strange) Like, I met one of my now friends and I found out she was bi a little after that, another one of my friends told me she was bi (I was like the last to know, and we're not really friends anymore but it has nothing to do with that) and another one of my friends told me she was bi (after she went to the guidance counselor and the guidance counselor told her she was lesbian because girls kept giving her their numbers) and after that ANOTHER friend told me she might be bi soooooo. Idk. It's really weird am I going crazy? Is it not weird? Also, I have like, two other friends so it's a lot of my friends
Ok but like literally all of my friends are gay in some way or another. I just connect with gay people, idk.
For me, basically everyone I know IRL is 100% straight, but almost all my internet friends are bi/gay/ace/other
It's interesting - people are a lot more open about sexuality on the internet, I think.
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I have one lesbian friend who came out to me just a while ago, but other than that all my irl friends are straight… though I have my suspicions that all of them might not be
It's interesting - people are a lot more open about sexuality on the internet, I think.
That's true definitely like I can't scream "I'm Gay" out loud while I'm in class, but while I'm here…