He's aware, and we're both against that violence. I think what he meant was the word 'homophobic' is really stupid because no one's afraid of LGBT people. They're hateful towards them, but not afraid.
I've heard it said on numerous occasions by a number of anti-gay organizations and supporters that they are 'afraid gays will ruin the sanctity of marriage." and/or are "afraid that their child will turn out gay if exposed to gays." so I actually do think most are afraid of the gays and their totally normal lives.
Also, gay marriage has been legal for some time now…I have heard zero news about how the idea of marriage has been destroyed or ruined. People are celebrating and spreading joy and happiness. Gay couples can adopt children as a married couple now. There hasn't been a single thing back about this outcome. Other than the violence that gayphobic people have caused.