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Okay, so I need help with something:

So basically I have a bf, and we hung out on Saturday. (We haven’t been dating for very long btw) He had to come back to mine to check bus times so he could get home but he ended up making out with me but like grabbing everything he could and I mean everything. At the time I though I liked it but after he left I felt really uncomfortable about the whole thing.

Now there’s this girl, she’s a year older then me and we’ve just started talking. I know she liked me and I may like her (she is currently planning a date for us, yes she knows about my bf)

From what happened this weekend I know I’m not comfortable being in a relationship with a guy but we’ve just started dating and I don’t want to be a nonce and break up with him.

Um… HELP?

Okay, how long have y'all been dating?

A couple weeks…

Okay, first off, that is not long enough for him to touch certain places.

And if you want, I can help you work on a script to break up with him.

Just tell him you felt uncomfortable that day, and that it would be too weird between you guys now to continue?

Okay, first off, that is not long enough for him to touch certain places.

And if you want, I can help you work on a script to break up with him.

Yes, please, thank you

Just tell him you felt uncomfortable that day, and that it would be too weird between you guys now to continue?

But I hate confronting people, that’s the thing, I don’t want to make him feel bad.

Ok but like, he made you uncomfortable and you're clearly not in to guys. Which is fine. He should understand if he has a head screwed on to his shoulders.

I think as long as you’re kind, and gentle when you explain, you’re fine

Okay, first off, that is not long enough for him to touch certain places.

And if you want, I can help you work on a script to break up with him.

Yes, please, thank you

Okay!
How do you want to start? I can help but you need to give me some ideas.
Also, do you want to move this to Pms?

lex you won't be able to make a PM unless you add an @ to your name

Ok but like, he made you uncomfortable and you're clearly not in to guys. Which is fine. He should understand if he has a head screwed on to his shoulders.

That’s true, yeah.

Did I mentions he’s a Christian and I’m an atheist?

Ok but like, he made you uncomfortable and you're clearly not in to guys. Which is fine. He should understand if he has a head screwed on to his shoulders.

That’s true, yeah.

Did I mentions he’s a Christian and I’m an atheist?

:L

No you didn't. I'm not suggesting you should bring up religion (if you're male idk) but hey there's a few boys who are just pushed into Christianity

Ok but like, he made you uncomfortable and you're clearly not in to guys. Which is fine. He should understand if he has a head screwed on to his shoulders.

That’s true, yeah.

Did I mentions he’s a Christian and I’m an atheist?

:L

No you didn't. I'm not suggesting you should bring up religion (if you're male idk) but hey there's a few boys who are just pushed into Christianity

Yeah, I’m female and he knows I’m bi (ha, I don’t really think so anymore) and said he wasn’t going to judge me for it… same with me being an atheist

Oh alright. I think you and Lex can plan something like a script but you should try and calm down and be careful. If he tries to corner you into doing something you don't like, push him the fuck off.

Yeah, I will. Thanks Emi.

ugh i know how easy it is to type rather than do but please be careful

Yw Carrots. Good luck.

Thanks Dom, I’ve already broken up with him so it’s fine. I keeps beating himself up over it and saying he feels like it’s his fault and shit… he sent me like twenty messages before I finally replied as I was trying to do work but… ugh, I feel kind a bad but I’m glad we’re over.

Yeah. But this experience has taught me that I’m a hard core lesbian so that’s a good thing.

You go with your gay self!

He keeps spamming me with all this shit about him being sad and depressed and as much as I feel bad for him it's really annoying… Like, we said we would sill be friends but…

Just block him then.

Yeah, I agree. That's probably best.

But I don't want to come off as an even bigger asshole… I'm too much of a nice person…

But they are bothering the hell out of you, it seems. Idk.

He keeps spamming me with all this shit about him being sad and depressed and as much as I feel bad for him it's really annoying… Like, we said we would sill be friends but…

sounds like emotional abuse. don't let him make you feel guilty. you did the right thing, even if he thinks you didn't. him spamming you crap like that is him hoping you'll feel pity for him and take him back, which is not okay. i'm probably the least experienced person to be saying anything, since i'm sixteen almost seventeen and have never been in a single relationship before, but i know emotional abuse pretty well, unfortunately. good luck, sending you best wishes <3

He keeps spamming me with all this shit about him being sad and depressed and as much as I feel bad for him it's really annoying… Like, we said we would sill be friends but…

sounds like emotional abuse. don't let him make you feel guilty. you did the right thing, even if he thinks you didn't. him spamming you crap like that is him hoping you'll feel pity for him and take him back, which is not okay. i'm probably the least experienced person to be saying anything, since i'm sixteen almost seventeen and have never been in a single relationship before, but i know emotional abuse pretty well, unfortunately. good luck, sending you best wishes <3

Wow.
Yeah, now that I think about it that's probably what this is. And in that light, I would advise you to follow @younghoudini's advise! Don't let him manipulate your feelings, and emotions like that. It's best just to block him.

Yeah… you guys are right