I need relationship advice, someone plz help

plz help me out, i'll literally love you forever

Yes hello I'll help. What do you need?

Hi, thanks. So my bf has been extra distant lately and i commented on it once already and he said he'd fix it but its been a couple days and he hasn't really. he says hes sick, which i get he was like coughing and sounded congested when i saw him last but we haven't had a real conversation in days. Idk what to do, i just need some help. (its also a little weird because i'm usually the one asked when someone needs advice or help and its odd to be on the other end of it all. i just don't know how to hep myself)

Hm, well is this the first time you've felt like you two had a couple of days of weird silence? Or has this kind of thing happened before?

Its the first time, but its just been long. were kinda talking right now, but i still feel like its going to continue

Well that's not so bad. Is this the first time in general that you've felt something like this during your relationship? Do you feel like the current silence is stemming from him not being as interested anymore? If this is the first sign of it, I wouldn't freak out. I'd just make it a point to bridge the gap yourself, even if he doesn't. Keep going on as usual, and then if you pick up more weird stuff, then have a conversation with him about it (being honest and understanding toward his side, ofc).

okay, that makes sense. its the first time somethings seemed off. dont think its lack of interest, but theres a lack of something im not quite sure what it is

Maybe it's just time. :) The longer you guys get to know each other, the closer you'll get.

I guess so, thank you

Yeah no problem, sorry if I couldn't be more of a help

no you absolutely helped, i really appreciate it.

Hope everything works out :)

me too, if you ever need advice or anything just pm me. i'm pretty good with advice or so i'm told, so just let me know if there's anything i can do for you

Thanks! I will