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Ask if possible
She might tell you why, or she might not, but you should at least try

@Peter_Parker

I will try. What do I do when she doesn't want to tell me anything?

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Just friend dump her

mate she's prolly not good for you

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What if she is, though? I mean, just because she's being nasty all of a sudden, that doesn't mean she is automatically not a good friend and you should dump her immediately.

@Peter_Parker

Can you do that in a friendly way?
Not that I won't friend dumb her but I just don't want to be mean to her

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Can you do that in a friendly way?
Not that I won't friend dumb her but I just don't want to be mean to her

If she doesn't tell you why she's being nasty just stop talking to her. If she approaches you be polite.

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Sly, what if she's going through a tough time, like you said, and needs to be talked to?

When my friends are being rude and/or mea to me, I keep pestering them to tell me what’s wrong. Usually when they get annoyed with me, they tell me lol

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Sly, what if she's going through a tough time, like you said, and needs to be talked to?

Yes but that doesn't excuse her behavior

It's like using alcoholism as an excuse for abuse. It doesn't make the abuse right

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@Peter_Parker doesn't know why she's acting this way. It would be better to find out why, before he leaves her.

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@Peter_Parker doesn't know why she's acting this way. It would be better to find out why, before he leaves her.

I know

I was just saying if they don't give them an answer

@Peter_Parker

I'm going to sleep now, I will talk to her tomorrow

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Okey-pokey, you have a good sleep. :)

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How'd it go Peter?

@Peter_Parker

It was so bad

WANna rant ?

@Peter_Parker

Well I talked to her and she said she wanted to tell me why she did so mean to me. So she told me that she used me for school, because I sometimes make her homework or help her with learning tests (but she never listens to me). But she sits next to me with tests so she could look at my answers. It only went on a meaner way

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Well hey, at least she was being honest! You should probably tell her that even though that was kinda disappointing, you're grateful for her honesty and that you would have been really confused if she kept on going without telling you. Tell her lightly that she shouldn't cheat like that to anyone again.
(Don't tell her this part)
Cheating is bad. Bad bad bad. So, part ways with someone who does it! Find new friends who don't cheat off you and you'll be better off. Trust me.

Well I talked to her and she said she wanted to tell me why she did so mean to me. So she told me that she used me for school, because I sometimes make her homework or help her with learning tests (but she never listens to me). But she sits next to me with tests so she could look at my answers. It only went on a meaner way

I've been in a situatuion like this one. My childhood friend used me then started bullying me. Just know that you have us! If you need to talk, rant, Or even want moral support, messgae me!

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It's true that you did share some sort of friendship and she wasn't, y'know, bullying you, so you should tell a counselor but make sure to tell her you'd like to remain anonymous.

@Peter_Parker

Heeey

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How'd it go? What'ja do?

@Peter_Parker

Wow what

@Peter_Parker

Everything is fine now between me and my friend

@Peter_Parker

My brains were turned off for two seconds

@Peter_Parker

Not that I have two brains, which would be cool.

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xD

@Peter_Parker

Wow your name is so cool and long but so cool

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I agree lol. So everything's settled?

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Wow your name is so cool and long but so cool

Thanks ^3^