LGBTQA+ chat

i have a question
i identify as straight
but if like a girl or transgender person or someone like idk asked me out or something I would be like sure because why not. But does that make me pansexual or something cause I've never had the experience of dating someone the same gender and i'm confused at what I am.

Well hon, since you're questioning I would just advise you to take your time
You don't have to have everything figured out right now
But if you do really want to know, just do some research and try to find what fits best for you :)

thanks i mean im young I don't need it figured out just quite yet

I think the thing you need to remember is that everything has the possibility to change. You could maybe think you're bi or pan, and then turn out to be something completely different. That's perfectly fine! We're all young and just trying to figure things out, we're all growing up, and things are gonna change along the way
(Sorry for the dramatic rambling lol) :)

No that's perfect thank you so much :)

I have been summoned by the play on a Doctor Who quote! Hi, I'm shy, bi, and about to cry, don't ask why.

People think sexuality and gender are a straight line from cause to effect, but in reality it's more like a big ball of… wibbly-wobbly….. sexy-wexy…. stuff.
This chat is for anyone and everyone who wants to talk about their identity. :)

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sup I'm a hufflepuff turned slytherin, aka "an angry cockroach that still has some compassion"

I'm genderfluid and bi/pan romantic

I am a non binary pal (maybe genderfluid since my dysphoria seems to appear then magically disappear????)
as for sexuality I have no fucking clue

SAMMMEE about the disappearing dysphoria
And mood at the no clue for sexuality

it's nice tho bc when it vanishes I'm like "y e s i can breathe"

literally bc I'll be comfortable taking my binder off

Nice
I don't have a binder. And if I got one and my parents found it I'd be dEaD lol

lmao when I got mine I flaunted it to my parents just to piss them off and they didn't talk to me for like a week. It hardly fits me anymore though so I can't wear it more than once a week for more than like an hour or I'll start to get really bad bruises and I'll be super dizzy bc I can hardly breathe

Oh dear don't wear it anymore please

yeah I'm gonna get a new one once I get my debit card renewed

That's good

But please don't wear it again

Okay, this is probably a stupid question but what's a binder?

It binds your chest so your chest is flat

Oh… okay, I see.

yeah I won't wear it again. I'll stick to layering sports bras for now

That's better
I wish there was a comfortable way to bind hhhhhhhhh

same
I'm considering getting surgery when I'm older, but that requires a lot of deep thinking and a lot of money

Yeah. That's a difficult decision. And kinda scary to think about lol

Yeah. Recovery can also put you through immense pain too, apparently. I just recently watched Ash Hardell's top surgery video.

Oh dear
I'm a wimp
Very very afraid of pain
I'll stick with a binder
(Once I move out)

yeah lol. I still gotta do my research and figure out whether or not it's really worth it to give my tits the slice

Oof yup yup

Oof yeah, my gender is kind of confusing for me
It really reminds me of how I felt discovering I was ace. I didn't feel any sexual attraction, and right now I'm not really feeling the whole boy/girl thing
Don't really feel like a girl, don't feel like a boy
I don't know, I'm not really that worried about it, so I think I'll just let it be for now lol

You could be non-binary

Yeah, maybe
But right now I'm just kind of comfortable where I am
So I'll just stick with she/her until I figure things out :)