LGBTQA+ chat

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Too beautiful

Honestly, imagine being paid to kiss David Tennant
I mean?????

I mean
I'm gay so it would be whatever for me. I do love David Tennant though, he's freaking awesome

Johnlock, is a big yes, potentially Sherlolly as a last resort. (BBCs Sherlock)

Ten/Rose, not really I was always more of a Doctor/Master shipper, with all incarnations to their respective Time Lord partner, especially 5/Ainley, 3/Delgado, 10/Simm, both of the Shalka incarnations as a ship since it's technically possible and highly likely, so sad Shalka was deemed Non-Canon, 8/Roberts and last but not least 12/Missy. 11/River Song for sure, I'm very supportive of Janto (Jack/Ianto) and Tosh/Owen. (These are most of my Doctor Who ships, including the spin-offs)

Lobsusan (Susan/Lobsang), Carrot/Angua, Jeremy/Unity (Not technically possible as Jeremy is no longer Jeremy (It's hard to explain….) and Unity (Also known as Myria LeJean) is dead.), Vimes/Paperwork (Just kidding, he belongs with Sybil. She's the one that gets him away from his paperwork.) and Vetinari/I have no idea as of yet. (My Discworld ships.)

Okay, those are most ships from my main two fandoms. (Currently, and I'm not counting Call The Midwife because Chummy/Noakes was really the only ship I had supported, which became canon, obviously. As for Sherlock, I'm a fan but not really that into it right now, mainly just hoping for a season 5 and that's it. But I have many more ships from other fandoms as well that I haven't listed here because I'm currently a little bit busy, lol)

daaang those are a lot of ships lol. I only have a few ships, my number one being Klance, Malec right behind it, Plance, Punk, and TenRose

Honestly, imagine being paid to kiss David Tennant
I mean?????

Yeah, or being paid to kiss Pearl Mackie (Who played Bill Potts. V. jealous of the actress who played Heather from The Pilot and later appeared in The Doctor Falls, wish I could have snogged Bill cuz' she's so adorable and badass and adsklfjsjrn I can't even I just think Bill is an amazing woman of power and all that jazz and I hope she makes an appearance later on in the show at some point and I'm probably fangirling too much sorry lol) but I would also probably kiss Tennant if I could, yeah.

I really like SAGA becuase it includes everyone at the same time, but LGBTQ+ works just fine aswell :)

oh hey this is a forum that exists.

Hi I am a gay.

Hello, welcome to the chat. One question before you enter though, what do you think of the SAGA community?

eeeeeeeeeeeeeeer I prefer the term LGBT+ cuz its more recognizable

((plus my synesthesia makes the term "SAGA" way too bright for me sorry))

but as for the community itself, regardless of what you choose to call it by, has my full and undying support. Also I am a member of it sooooooo yeah.

Hahaha yeah, I was just pulling your legs. Anything you wish to discuss?

yeah I wanted to ask about coming out as gay… after having called yourself a bisexual for 3 years.

But here's the thing. I realized I wasn't straight before I realized what gender I was. (im also a ftm transguy). I thought I was a girl and I thought I liked guys and maybe girls.

Then I made my social transition, and after some time I realized… I'm not actually attracted to girls.

But I've been telling people that I'm bi for years, and since me thinking I liked girls was a part of my coming out as trans, I'm a bit scared people won't believe me, or accuse me of biphobia, or something like that.

any tips?

I went through the same thing, but with me being attracted to girls only (I'm open to dating guys but I've never been attracted to one.) If anybody judges you for it, or tries to call you out on it, just calmly explain to them that exploring your sexuality and gender is a tricky thing, and you didn't know what your sexuality was at the time. If they don't get it, just drop it, it's not worth your time trying to explain something so simple to somebody so ignorant.

alrighty, thanks :>

I think I'm gonna wait a bit until I start telling people though.

Yeah I get that lol

do you guys have any advice on how to come out?I already told my parents and one or two friends, but I want to be more open and stuff for the next school year. any advice?

well this isn't my stick of the woods, but if I was you, I would just unleash the inner me. It's part of your behavior/self-identity meaning it's a part of you. You could probably just slowly mentioning things from the community or just ask what others make of it. Overtime people will tell other people and eventually everyone will know (People love to talk). However, not everyone needs to know, just be you boo. That's my take on it anyway

thanks! :)

All very good advice. I just want you to remember that your safety should always be top priority. Surround yourself with supporting friends and good people. Ask teachers and/or admin about what they think and if they'll support you or not. Find safe place classrooms and areas where you feel comfortable. Always try to be the authentic you, but if your safety is on the line then please be careful my friend.

Sorry I went a bit Mom Friend there lol

dont worry, I go mom-friend all the time! Thankfully, I go to a pretty liberal school and most of the people there are accepting, Im just worried im going to lose friends, you know?Thanks for the advice

Well good friends wouldn't leave you because you're different to them. If they do though, just remember they are probably the biggest douche bag in the world! If you're too scared though just tell the people you feel comfortable to tell (for example; your Best Friend or community members). Just a suggestion though (I am also afraid but that's what I've been doing)

Cool will do :) thanks for the help~!

You're welcome and I wish you luck!

literally only found this chat like 2 secs agobut imma yeet this out there: am i the only genderqueer peep?

Nah I'm gender-fluid (if that counts lol)

Lol close enough :P sup?