LGTBQ+ Question and Answer Session

Ace is where you don’t want a sexual relationship so like fluff not smut and most people use it as an umbrella term for Ace, some Aro etc. if I got something wrong please tell me!

Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction. It's a spectrum, So, some aces may want a sexual relationship, they just don't particularly lust for it.
Some aces may also not be comfortable with fluff, or physical affection (which is what I interpret 'fluff' as) while others may love being cuddly. I don't think ace should ever be used as an umbrella term for aro, because some aros may still feel sexual attraction, just like some aces still feel romantic attraction, as they aren't aro.

Thanks and sorry that was so bad I’m kinda a shit at rembering things so I just pulled what I remember out of my mind and put it there and I’m so sorry…..

Ace is where you don’t want a sexual relationship so like fluff not smut and most people use it as an umbrella term for Ace, some Aro etc. if I got something wrong please tell me!

Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction. It's a spectrum, So, some aces may want a sexual relationship, they just don't particularly lust for it.
Some aces may also not be comfortable with fluff, or physical affection (which is what I interpret 'fluff' as) while others may love being cuddly. I don't think ace should ever be used as an umbrella term for aro, because some aros may still feel sexual attraction, just like some aces still feel romantic attraction, as they aren't aro.

Thanks and sorry that was so bad I’m kinda a shit at rembering things so I just pulled what I remember out of my mind and put it there and I’m so sorry…..

You're totally fine, no one can remember everything lol

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Hi 🤗
So my situation is a bit weird and I don't know what to call it, and I may be correct, but I feel as though I am wrong in describing what I feel.
I think I am Bi or Asexual, or maybe both if there is a term for that. I know for sure that I am attracted to males, because I have a preference in which males I am attracted to. I think I sometimes I find certain females attractive, but I am hesitant in that regard. At the same time, unlike a lot of people my age, I don't desire anything sexual or smut at all, in fact, I am repulsed by the idea of sex of any kind (sorry if I offended anyone with that). So I suppose I'm asexual as well? I just don't know because I'm kind of drowning in hetero where I live and I can't talk about it with any friends or family members. I'm confused and I don't know what to do.

How do you figure out if your genderfluid? I think I might be but I don't know…

Hi 🤗
So my situation is a bit weird and I don't know what to call it, and I may be correct, but I feel as though I am wrong in describing what I feel.
I think I am Bi or Asexual, or maybe both if there is a term for that. I know for sure that I am attracted to males, because I have a preference in which males I am attracted to. I think I sometimes I find certain females attractive, but I am hesitant in that regard. At the same time, unlike a lot of people my age, I don't desire anything sexual or smut at all, in fact, I am repulsed by the idea of sex of any kind (sorry if I offended anyone with that). So I suppose I'm asexual as well? I just don't know because I'm kind of drowning in hetero where I live and I can't talk about it with any friends or family members. I'm confused and I don't know what to do.

I think this is called biromantic asexual
Like, you want to have a romantic relationship with both sexes but not a sexual relationship

Hi 🤗
So my situation is a bit weird and I don't know what to call it, and I may be correct, but I feel as though I am wrong in describing what I feel.
I think I am Bi or Asexual, or maybe both if there is a term for that. I know for sure that I am attracted to males, because I have a preference in which males I am attracted to. I think I sometimes I find certain females attractive, but I am hesitant in that regard. At the same time, unlike a lot of people my age, I don't desire anything sexual or smut at all, in fact, I am repulsed by the idea of sex of any kind (sorry if I offended anyone with that). So I suppose I'm asexual as well? I just don't know because I'm kind of drowning in hetero where I live and I can't talk about it with any friends or family members. I'm confused and I don't know what to do.

I think this is called biromantic asexual
Like, you want to have a romantic relationship with both sexes but not a sexual relationship

That makes sense….

So, I think some women/girls are hot/pretty/cute, but I'm not romantically attracted to them. Does that make me bi, because I also prefer men?

How do you figure out if your genderfluid? I think I might be but I don't know…

Well you kinda really have to examine how you feel, specifically looking at your dysphoria levels and what's causing it. Maybe track it over a one month period? Because for me, I didn't think genderfluid at first. I thought I was a solid trans male, which turned out to be a bit wrong as I went along discovering myself.

Really, you just have to analyze and examine yourself and how you feel. You'll be okay, no matter what you find out about yourself.

So, I think some women/girls are hot/pretty/cute, but I'm not romantically attracted to them. Does that make me bi, because I also prefer men?

Well, you can still think some women/girls are hot/pretty/cute and not be bi. You're not blind. You can see and recognize when women/girls look really awesome and adorable, but that doesn't mean you should feel the need to be with them.

However, if you think you're bi, then you're probably bi. If you think you're straight, then you're probably straight. Either way, you can still tell if a woman/girl is really super beautiful or not.

Just a helpful insight for genderqueer people: If you are worried that you have been faking it and that you are in fact cis, remember that cis people rarely question their gender~

How do you figure out if your genderfluid? I think I might be but I don't know…

Well you kinda really have to examine how you feel, specifically looking at your dysphoria levels and what's causing it. Maybe track it over a one month period? Because for me, I didn't think genderfluid at first. I thought I was a solid trans male, which turned out to be a bit wrong as I went along discovering myself.

Really, you just have to analyze and examine yourself and how you feel. You'll be okay, no matter what you find out about yourself.

What exactly counts as dysphoria?

That definitely sounds like demisexual, buddy

Well, like I said before on another thread, you're not blind. You recognize most females look amazing compared to most men. You are allowed to see and acknowledge beauty, but not be inherently attracted to them.

Think of it this way,
You can recognize the difference between a beautiful, nice necklace and a shitty, rusted necklace. Just because you see and know how pretty that necklace is, doesn't mean you're attracted to the necklace.

Thanks for your help!!
Okay so I'm demi-biromantic and asexual.
It might just be me, but I really like being able to have a word for how I feel.

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Biromantic Asexual
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im just sittin here being my demiromantic asexual self

Thanks for your help!!
Okay so I'm demi-biromantic and asexual.
It might just be me, but I really like being able to have a word for how I feel.

Same
Biromantic Asexual
I like it

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