ALRIGHT SO. I didn't get that much information because the candle was bouncing like a fucking bouncy ball the entire time, and it was very difficult to decipher what was an answer and what was the spirit just going fucking bonkers that someone was actually talking to him
I did ascertain that the spirit is: a he like I thought, and intends no harm to myself or loved ones. Whether or not he's here for a purpose, I have no idea, since he would never answer that question in a way that made sense. He answered yes, and then when I asked "Is that a yes?" he said "no". When I repeated the original question, "Are you here for a purpose?" he answered no again. When I asked "is that a no" to clarify, he said "no" again. He was very adamant, though, that he intended no harm, since he kept repeating no after I asked that question (he would bounce the candle flame three times, then go still for a few seconds, then bounce no again, then repeat). So. I very much got the sense that he's young and excitable, and that last night he was so excited that I was talking to him that he couldn't focus on the questions. He would make the flame go still if I asked him to, and could point the flame different directions, but most of the time the candle was just bouncing like fucking crazy