Personal Venting Chat, New and Improved! (Without Jerks)

My legs hurt! Because I'm gay! And have Trouble Sitting Still Disorder™! And so I sit weird! Cause it helps me focus! And now! My leg hurts! Cause of my weird sitting! And its not! Helping! My! Focus!!

Okay take a deep breath Moxie. You have to find a way to sit normally and tough out your senses so you can focus and not injure yourself, with potential long term bodily harm. Sitting in an abnormal fashion could really hurt your body and for a long time, so you gotta stop. I understand that something like that can disturb you and rip your attention from things, but you have to overpower it. You have to breath steadily and focus on whatever you need to and ignore the pain and discomfort. I would also suggest telling other people how that affects you and seek help from whoever you can, whether that be any good parents or guardians you have, or a doctor, just try to get help and overcome your troubles.

Wow, so you're clearly neurotypical.

Why are you insulting me, I'm just showing concern for Moxie having trouble. Just trying to help in any way possible.

Neurotypical isn't an insult??? Lmfao I'm just saying that it's not that easy for someone with ADHD to just stop.

Guys, that was like 5 or something pages ago.

Yeah, and I didn't get the chance to reply because I lost connection.
Stay out of it and let me defend myself, you have literally nothing to do with it.

Please be nice. Lashing out at people does nothing but cause more tension, and make people feel a bit like trash. Even the person lashing out.

_{why am i still crying over noah, it's been seven years since he died. SEVEN! and i'm still crying. i should just get over it shouldn't i?}

_{why am i still crying over noah, it's been seven years since he died. SEVEN! and i'm still crying. i should just get over it shouldn't i?}

The death of a loved one is not something you can just "get over" and if people are telling you to get over them they are wrong. It is better to take your own time to let yourself accept it.

_{why am i still crying over noah, it's been seven years since he died. SEVEN! and i'm still crying. i should just get over it shouldn't i?}

The death of a loved one is not something you can just "get over" and if people are telling you to get over them they are wrong. It is better to take your own time to let yourself accept it.

_{but seven years. that's a long damn time. i've lived a solid half my life without him. and yet, today comes and hits me like a damn truck. every year, and i always know that it's coming. i knew that december 20th would come. and it still. fucking. hurts. why does it still hurt?}

_{why am i still crying over noah, it's been seven years since he died. SEVEN! and i'm still crying. i should just get over it shouldn't i?}

The death of a loved one is not something you can just "get over" and if people are telling you to get over them they are wrong. It is better to take your own time to let yourself accept it.

_{but seven years. that's a long damn time. i've lived a solid half my life without him. and yet, today comes and hits me like a damn truck. every year, and i always know that it's coming. i knew that december 20th would come. and it still. fucking. hurts. why does it still hurt?}

Because you loved him. It's really that simple. You loved him and you still do. It may take your whole life to finally accept it, and that's okay.

And because grieving is a long, difficult process. And it’s different for everyone and that’s totally okay. Still missing someone after seven years doesn’t mean your weak. It means you’re a person feeling things that are totally valid. It’s totally okay to be feeling whatever your feeling. I’m sorry for your loss.

_{why am i still crying over noah, it's been seven years since he died. SEVEN! and i'm still crying. i should just get over it shouldn't i?}

The death of a loved one is not something you can just "get over" and if people are telling you to get over them they are wrong. It is better to take your own time to let yourself accept it.

_{but seven years. that's a long damn time. i've lived a solid half my life without him. and yet, today comes and hits me like a damn truck. every year, and i always know that it's coming. i knew that december 20th would come. and it still. fucking. hurts. why does it still hurt?}

You remember stuff that happened to you when you were seven. That's not worded right. I don't know how to word it. But arguably, seven years isn't really that long. Of course it hurts. You lost someone you loved and today's the "anniversary" I guess. You were young, too. Despite what some media tries to say, death isn't something people just "get over". Grieving is a process. For some people it takes more time, some less. Just because you're still devastated does not make you a wimp or lame, and honestly, if people tell you that, they need to fuck off.

And because grieving is a long, difficult process. And it’s different for everyone and that’s totally okay. Still missing someone after seven years doesn’t mean your weak. It means you’re a person feeling things that are totally valid. It’s totally okay to be feeling whatever your feeling. I’m sorry for your loss.

me trying to say something and Moxie saying it better, _{as usual}

can we not

^^^^^^^^^^^^
Listen to Ella, she's the mod and pretty dang good at it.

You do realize that you're also partially at fault, right?

can we not

^^^^^^^^^^^^
Listen to Ella, she's the mod and pretty dang good at it.

You do realize that you're also partially at fault, right?

Again lashing out at people doesn't help, they commented on something, that they maybe shouldn't have, and you lashed out at them for it. Please stop, and just leave it as is, we don't need to break this down into a big fight as it will do no one any good.

And because grieving is a long, difficult process. And it’s different for everyone and that’s totally okay. Still missing someone after seven years doesn’t mean your weak. It means you’re a person feeling things that are totally valid. It’s totally okay to be feeling whatever your feeling. I’m sorry for your loss.

me trying to say something and Moxie saying it better, _{as usual}

_{as usual? Thank you?? I didn’t know I was so eloquent.}

But like. I’m almost definitely older than you and it’s pretty much my job at school to write things good. You’ll get there, don’t worry buddy ^-^

If youre talking to me, I don't think so. Unless you're somehow an adult and I'm remembering wrong

If youre talking to me, I don't think so. Unless you're somehow an adult and I'm remembering wrong

Nah, I’m 17. So like almost but not quite

So a little older than me. I'll be 17 in a few months

thank you.
you kinda wrote what i needed to hear.
both moxie AND pickles. both of you wrote what i needed.