In situations like that I just tell myself, "Whatever. If its bad, so be it. I'm doing what I want to do."
Because you might mess up. You might make a mistake. But you'll learn for yourself. You can't do that with your mom telling you what to do.
So go get that glue. Get it quick and make the art. I believe in you
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(While I want to follow that logic for my own situation, Moxie, I don’t think I can)
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Have you explained to her that while you appreciate her advice, it is your work and you want it to be your ideas that are in there?
I am going on two, maybe four years now of being entirely convinced that it is utterly impossible for me to talk to my mom about anything. We argue all the time, and as much as I love her, I really do, I also hate her more than any other person in my life for multiple reasons, number one being the fact that she THINKS she understands me and she doesn't.
Two being she never ever fucking listens to me.
Three being the fact that she's broken multiple promises. One being the promise she made never to read my writing, but she broke that when she took my phone, banned google docs on it after reading something I was working on after bedtime cause I couldn't sleep, and then confronting me on it after I left for school the next morning in an ice cold text sending me into tears for the entire day.
She is impossible to convince of anything, because once she's set on something there is no telling her otherwise.
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In situations like that I just tell myself, "Whatever. If its bad, so be it. I'm doing what I want to do."
Because you might mess up. You might make a mistake. But you'll learn for yourself. You can't do that with your mom telling you what to do.
So go get that glue. Get it quick and make the art. I believe in you
Thanks Moxie, that actually does help.
What doesn't is my mom came in here asking me a question, and said nothing about the fact that I was very clearly wiping away tears and not looking at her.
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(While I want to follow that logic for my own situation, Moxie, I don’t think I can)
(The one we were talking about earlier?)
(Yeah)
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there is nothing more comforting than a random openly lesbian girl seeing you in the hall and telling you "you're, like, really pretty"
But in other news, I really want lemon ice cream and we don't have any
I'd have to go out to get it
And it still wouldn't be as good as the stuff in Germany
there is nothing more comforting than a random openly lesbian girl seeing you in the hall and telling you "you're, like, really pretty"
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there is nothing more comforting than a random openly lesbian girl seeing you in the hall and telling you "you're, like, really pretty"
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RIGHT
That's awesome, Miri.
And sorry about the ice cream though
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10/10 agree.
Regrets were made.
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I stress so much about whether or not animals are happy
Not just my animal, though the thought of my son cat being unhappy literally brings tears to my eyes
but like… I just saw a hamster in a video and I immediately thought "is it happy in that new cage? Is it really?"
Idk. That's my 'vent,' I guess.
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in other news I literally cannot school tomorrow
Why are you unable to school tomorrow?
I mean, school sucks and all and sometimes I really wish I didn't have to go too, but that's probably for different reasons than you.
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I just can't
Fair enough. I mean education is kind of important though…
I just can't
Reasonable.
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I wanna go, [To school] (Escape from evil mom and noisy sibs (I love them, I really do, but I need SPACE)
But I also don't wanna walk. (Its about 5-6 blocks? (Depending on how I count the partial ones)
I just can't
Why not?
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Love confusion. I have a crush on two people at the same time. And I’m still getting over a breakup, what the fuck is happening to me.
So the one I’m pretty sure just sees me as a friend (I like them more, of course I do.) and the other one I’m slightly annoyed by but I still have a small crush on them.
I don’t know what to do and the one knows and they haven’t told me how they feel because they don’t know and I just what the fuck.
And my friend ships me with the one I like more and whenever we talk around her she says I ship it and my heart pounds and I get nervous and start shuddering and laughing and I just used so many ands I am very nervous. I like him a lot and I just want to see him happy. I want to snuggle with him and hug him, make him feel wanted, break him out of his shy shell even more. I care about him so much but I don’t want to push him away from me. I keep getting very bad butterflies, and I’ve never felt so happy and nervous around someone. I really don’t want to loose him, I’ve been his friend since 8th grade. We went to Hershey together (and Emi was always there by my side, I didn’t forget about Emi just listen-), I stayed in band just to see him and Emi. I tried my best to get through freshman year band camp, at first I thought it was because I loved Emi, but I did it for him. I’m so fucking confused. I wish I could go back to summer and push through band camp, just to talk to him more, see him more happy, listen to his soft shy voice, see him talk and open up to others.
God dammit I’m head over heels for him. FUCK
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Please I need advice anything will do
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Ican offer internet hugs and uwus, (Is also shipping it) But I cant really offer advice….
I'm here if you need to rant though!
What word
UwU
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whispers uwu