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questioning asexuality?

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anyone have advice because i am 100% lost

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I know im not the person for this but question on what???

@RedTheLoveless

Are you questioning if you are ace or are you questioning about what exactly being ace entails?

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What She said

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if i am ace. I just…confusion

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Well do you feel like you might love or like someone

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Or feel you want to be in a relationship??

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yes. i know i'm not aro. I'm questioning asexuality.

@RedTheLoveless

Well you don't have to figure it out right away. Like, don't rush yourself into finding who you are, cause you can discover something new about yourself at any moment.
Though, I would like to know what made you start questioning if you're ace or not? And, if you like, I can give a brief description of what being asexual means.

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well, I know i feel physically attracted to people. I like hugs and hopefully will kiss someone some day. but the idea of getting intimate just makes me feel, gross. Like i don't really want that to happen. but,,,,like,,,,,

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Asesexual is where you are Antisexual correct?

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That sounds very asexual to me. Take your time, don't feel like you need to rush.

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I am learning like everyone else LOL

@RedTheLoveless

That definitely sounds like being asexual to me. My best friend is also asexual and he loves hugs and cuddles and kisses but he is absolutely revolted at the thought of having sex. So I guess I can say I understand what you mean and know that you are 100% valid and accepted. If anyone says otherwise, no one will find their bodies.

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^^^ What Red said.

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thanks. ominous but supportive. 100%

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Hey Red can you help me out and just give me a brief meaning of Ace and Intersexual please

@RedTheLoveless

Asexual is basically where a person does not feel sexual attraction/is repulsed by anything sex related/not interested in having sex.

Intersexual is basically a gender between male and female, somewhat like the opposite of nonbinary, if I understand correctly. (If I fucked up on this please correct me cuz I'm not 100% sure I'm right).

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( Sorry new at this stuff I mean I know what Gay bi queer and straight mean but not the rest)
What does Nonbinary mean

@RedTheLoveless

Nonbinary is a gender that is neither male nor female. It is also referred to as enby/nb for short. It's "outside of the binary of male and female", hence the name of nonbinary.

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Usually they use they/them as a pronoun, but sometimes other ones as well.

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Oh ok Thanks

@RedTheLoveless

Shit thank you Jynnie I forgot to add that. It's late. I'm tired and my brain has checked out for the night already lol

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It's okay Red. My brain goes to sleep at like 1 o'clock but my body wants to sleep at 9….

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Its midnight here and I have practically died in my bed. My brain shut down hours ago and my fingers are just now starting to hurt and im getting antsy.

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……………..then stop typing and sleep??

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No im already dead. SO I feel like staying up for another half hour.

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Well good for you then.

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Yup I guess

@RedTheLoveless

Sleep would be nice but school is saying "FUCK YOU HERE'S 6 HOURS OF HOMEWORK ALL FROM YOUR ADVANCED CLASSES HAVE FUN!"

So I've given up on that at this point.