The LGBTQ+ Community Chat :) Part 2!

My gender mood? "Oh boy, this exists. Why? Can I turn it back in for a refund?"

My gender mood: “I like this, sometimes. I like that, sometimes. But I also want to get rid of everything, all the time.”

like I prefer being somewhat feminine but I don't care about pronouns at all but I also want to totally get rid of all of my… erm- female parts so I just want to be a genderless human that goes with she/they pronouns like Lady Macbeth because yes.

See, I'm fine with my body, probably in part because I'm blessed with a little chest and everything else is fine. And I would like to have kids one day, so it's like, whatever.
But socially? Being a woman, being "ma'am," "miss," "lady," etc is fucking wack.
I saw this tik tok the other day where another she/they said "a lot of people ask what it means when I say I use she/they pronouns. I'm going to start telling people I'm a non-practicing woman."
And holy shit that resonated so hard with me.

Also hot take (directed at someone irl, not anyone here): If a slur/insult/offensive term doesn't apply to you, maybe don't use it to refer to yourself as?

why can't I be mentally s t a b l e for just a few m i n u t e s holy shit

I made a bracelet that says 'fuck you' in morse code and I'm going to give it to my friend-

Just saw someone use "mates of honor" (as opposed to like, maid of honor) as a gender neutral way to describe bridesmaids and that's so good 🥺
Like I'm not gonna have any cishet women in my wedding party when that day does come, so I greatly appreciate the not-cheesy gender neutral term there.
Also haha the idea of having to invite my conservative grandparents to the queerest straight-passing wedding is lowkey funny as fuck, as long as they're not rude to any guests.

found my gender mood in Shenpai's Twitch bio

Damn I might've accidentally outed myself though a joke during Spanish yesterday

Thank you! We haven't started planning or anything yet, since it's going to be at least another year and a half. But yknow, I've already decided who I want there with me lmao

Spanish Teacher: MJ, c'mon gimme a straight answer.
Me: Can't give you a straight answer if I'm not straight [cackles]
Entire Class: :O
My best friend: [laughing her ass off]

even the title is gay
I just refer to it as yaoi on ice lol

All jokes aside though, I do like the genuine relationship between Yuri and Victor. It’s more of a platonic relationship than an outright romantic relationship—and yes I have seen the uncensored kiss scene—but people forget about their actual relationship and I hate that