Let's Talk The Birds & The Bees >>> (Mature Rating - For Authors Serious About Sensitive Scenes)

That’s a question I’ll have to ask Nate nods knowledgeably

Yeah, don't ask me how I know this.

THAT QUESTION DOESN'T BELONG ON THIS CHAT

Christ.

It's sexual? Kinda? So arguably it does.

No actually it doesn't.
That is anatomy and has nothing to do with writting smut.

Since this is my chat I can decide what goes here and what doesnt.

Okay, sorry! I hope you don't feel uncomfortable, I didn't mean to push boundaries. Switching the topic I guess, how does one write the emotional side of smut versus the actions themselves? Like, if you just mainly wanted to focus on emotions, specifically dealing with some minor trauma in my case but it can be anything, from happy to silly to depressed, idk. Help.

shrug

y'all kinky bitches
explain two things to me

1. foot fetishes
2. daddy kinks

because I've never hooked up with someone who had either
and with all honesty
it's a lil weird

y'all kinky bitches
explain two things to me

1. foot fetishes
2. daddy kinks

because I've never hooked up with someone who had either
and with all honesty
it's a lil weird

1. i don't actually have any clue

2. i literally don't know either. all i know is–and yes i'm outing my boyfriend here–my boyfriend likes it, and i enjoy the more fluff aspects of age play

now, hear me out on this one. i don't do the sexual stuff with it. even my boyfriend refuses to do the sexual things involved in age play, the only thing is that he just likes being called daddy. it's weird but hey.
for me, i think a decent part of the fluff age play comes from a lacking childhood. i didn't get to be the kid i should have gotten to be, instead forced to mature like super early due to a number of things, including a shit father, adhd and gifted kid syndrome, and being the eldest child. so being able to just…feel like a kid again is such a great thing for me. it makes me feel safe, and i just really enjoy getting to tap into the childlike part of me for a bit, without fear of the whole 'dude that's weird grow up' or mocking. idk it's just nice. i can't speak for people who are into it sexually, though i'd be willing to bet my boyfriend is into it because he likes protecting and his dad was also shit

tdrl people with age play kinks and a lot of kinks in that lineage in general have daddy issues, pun intended

Dang, this thread stayed alive that long?

I lowkey dread when I get notifs for this thread XD

what's to dread? it's very enlightening to see how little people actually know about sex lmao–myself included

somehow the people on this thread who have had sex know just as little about sex as the people who haven't

I blame the school system

Same

consider alternatively, or as well

parents

okay but honestly?? did anybody here ever have "the talk" or did you just kind of learn as you went? because personally, I feel like one day it just became common knowledge.

I didn't get a talk
I got a book and was left to my own devices since I brought it up while I was in 3rd grade

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on that note, to whom it may concern: flavored condoms are a dangerous thing. a big no from me.

i actually did get the talk, when i was like pretty young and some kid brought a condom to school and thought it was a balloon. it wasn't horribly detailed, because again, kid, but it was realistic enough and as i grew up i was told more and more, ykno, to match me growing, cause what a thirteen year old should know is a lot different than what a nine year old should know

also y'all saying this shit reminds me, unfortunately, of the flavored condoms sitting in my top drawer of my nightstand that'll literally never get used because a) fuck boys but don't if you know what i mean and b) ew

I also did get some of my sex knowledge from One Direction fan fiction

I didn't get a talk
I got a book and was left to my own devices since I brought it up while I was in 3rd grade

Did we have the same childhood?