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Help I want pronouns for myself. It's been years, and I want.

@Oakiin forum 19 comments schedule
@Oakiin

Year, I tell you. Years.
I've identified as agender for all of those years, yet I still go by my birth pronouns, bc
A) I live in a conservative area
B) Literally don't care that much
c) I don't mind arguing my gender, or just standing up for myself, it's the fact that I just have not the energy to do that constantly. It's rough enough in my own dang house. =<=

But, the open wilds of the 'online' call, and here, I can be who I am freely….
But to to that I need pronouns

I don't like 'they' all that much, sadly. I'm thinking about ae/aer/aers/aerself, just to keep with the A theme of my life, but I'm not too decided.
So yeah.
Throw me your anouns. I mean, pronouns.
Thanks, I love you

eco
@Anemone eco

In my past experience, I have met someone who has chosen to use ze/zir(or hir) pronouns, but I'm not really sure how much you'd like those.

eco
@Anemone eco

In addition to that, there are others such as co, sie, and ey.

eco
@Anemone eco

Really there's a myriad of pronouns, including:

  • ey/em/eir
  • Hu/hum/hus
  • per/pers
  • Jee/jem/jeir(s)
  • Ve/ver/vis
  • Xe/xem/xyr(s)
  • Zhe/zhim/zher(s)

And the list kinda goes on. But it's really up to you

eco
@Anemone eco

I hope I did a little bit to help in your decision-making.

@Oakiin

I've debated a lot about ze! I don't think it's quite me, but thanks sm! ^^

@Oakiin

Oh shoot, I didn't see your other posts, hang on one sec :)

@Oakiin

I actually quite like Zhe, I'll add it to my list <3 tysm!! I actually hadn't heard that one before ^^

eco
@Anemone eco

You're welcome. Glad I could help! <3

Metric

I don't have any suggestions at the moment, but I'm following this so I know how to refer to you in the future. Best of luck finding ones you like!

@Oakiin

tysm!!!!! <3 That means so much to me :)

@Oakiin

(Excuse me, I'm just trying on some pronouns. I wanted to write them down to keep track of what I'm thinking. None of these are final yettt)

They/Them/Theirs/Themself
A/Am/As/Aself
Zhe/Zhim/Zher/Zherself
Ae/Aer/Aer(s)/Aerself

Sunflower walked to the store. They didn't know what they were looking for, but they brought with them their service dog, and today, Sunflower feels happy with themself.

Sunflower walked to the store. A didn't know what a was looking for, but a brought with am as service dog, and today, Sunflower feels happy with aself.

Sunflower walked to the store. Zhe didn't know what zhe were looking for, but zhe brought with zhim zher service dog, and today, Sunflower feels happy with zherself.

Sunflower walked to the store. Ae didn't know what ae were looking for, but ae brought with aer aer service dog, and today, Sunflower feels happy with aerself.

This is tough, man xDD

eco
@Anemone eco

(XD I'm sure you'll figure it out.<3)

@Oakiin

(Ty <3)
OKay! I think I've figured it out:
A/Am/Ax(s)/Aself
But I know that's kinda complicated, so I'm good with 'they' pronouns as well :)
We'll try these for a while anyways :D

eco
@Anemone eco

Cool, I'm glad you were able to figure it out. I'll be sure to use those! <3

@Oakiin

Thank-you so much!! ^^ <3

@Oakiin

@Young-Dusty

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ty for the tag, cool pronouns fam! ^^

@Oakiin

ty bab :D