I know this forum is inactive but I wanna share my ocs anyways! I have quite a few characters who aren't traumatized! Of course they go throw their hard times and challenges which do shape them in some form, but of course thats different. Some of those charactere are:
Lea and Tsunami both had a fairly normal childhood, nothing apart from sibling banter and arguments. Pine grew up on an animal sanctuary for dragons, so he's seen plenty of harm done to the dragons but I don't think its traumatized him. Casper had a very simple life working in his family's bakery. Ray was an only child (as of now, I still need to develop him), and was fairly happy. Thorn's childhood was supportive and healthy, of course there was the issue of her growing up with gender dysphoria which is harmful but still had that support from her mom and dad. Ruby was very happy growing up and when her and Casper got together it was even better. Bridgette was happy with her family and friends. Tornado grew up in the Temple, but even in a strict religious enviroment his mom and dad took care of him and supported him when he had to leave to become a knight. Esme's childhood was chaotic a times but not traumatizing…and last but not least Luke's childhood was a little harsh because of the pressure of being a knight, but he had Prince Taren to fall in love with and support his goofy boyfriend.
Also even some of my other characters who are traumatized are healing or on the path to healing by the end. I'm a hurt/comfort girly I don't like leaving all my characters suffering.