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Like he doesn't know that I'm ace
Or bi
And he's like
"Doesn't bisexual imply that there are only two genders?"
Ugh. Basically the way I see it is:
Pan: attraction regardless of gender. They can be equally attracted to anyone.
Bi: Has preferences but can still feel attraction to anyone?
Poly: Feels attraction to some but not all genders. So like they may not be attracted to, say, men.