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Personal Venting Chat, New and Improved! (Without Jerks)

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when the people in one of your “priority chats” are talking about a subject that causes you a lot of irrational panic and you want to ask them to stop but it’s not your chat to moderate so you ignore the notifications, checking every 30 or so minutes to see if they’ve changed conversations yet but they just keep talking, getting worse and worse each time so you just have to suck it up and try not to cry even though you’re visibly shaking and terrified and why am I like this, I’m so sick of being the worthless little weakling I am and I just want it to all go away-

Okay but can I be honest we're discussing things for writing purposes and it is a chat of people mostly older that you so like… : /

Unpopular opinion: people are still allowed to be uncomfortable, no matter what the purposes of the discussion are or how tame the discussion is. You don't have to understand their reasoning or thought process to respect that.

I'm not saying she can't be uncomfortable I'm just saying that she should understand there's going to be things like that on a chat of people older that her

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@Moxie group

when the people in one of your “priority chats” are talking about a subject that causes you a lot of irrational panic and you want to ask them to stop but it’s not your chat to moderate so you ignore the notifications, checking every 30 or so minutes to see if they’ve changed conversations yet but they just keep talking, getting worse and worse each time so you just have to suck it up and try not to cry even though you’re visibly shaking and terrified and why am I like this, I’m so sick of being the worthless little weakling I am and I just want it to all go away-

Okay but can I be honest we're discussing things for writing purposes and it is a chat of people mostly older that you so like… : /

Unpopular opinion: people are still allowed to be uncomfortable, no matter what the purposes of the discussion are or how tame the discussion is. You don't have to understand their reasoning or thought process to respect that.

I'm not saying she can't be uncomfortable I'm just saying that she should understand there's going to be things like that on a chat of people older that her

Okay? Pretty sure she does understand that. So whats your issue?

person_off
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when the people in one of your “priority chats” are talking about a subject that causes you a lot of irrational panic and you want to ask them to stop but it’s not your chat to moderate so you ignore the notifications, checking every 30 or so minutes to see if they’ve changed conversations yet but they just keep talking, getting worse and worse each time so you just have to suck it up and try not to cry even though you’re visibly shaking and terrified and why am I like this, I’m so sick of being the worthless little weakling I am and I just want it to all go away-

Okay but can I be honest we're discussing things for writing purposes and it is a chat of people mostly older that you so like… : /

Unpopular opinion: people are still allowed to be uncomfortable, no matter what the purposes of the discussion are or how tame the discussion is. You don't have to understand their reasoning or thought process to respect that.

I'm not saying she can't be uncomfortable I'm just saying that she should understand there's going to be things like that on a chat of people older that her

Okay? Pretty sure she does understand that. So whats your issue?

Already said, reread it if you can't remember. Let's not have this turn into the last venting chat.

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@Moxie group

Already said, reread it if you can't remember. Let's not have this turn into the last venting chat.

Okay I also don't want that to happen But you literally just recapped what was going on and then you said … : / If you have said an actual arguement, I would have actually had something to argue about with you

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@Moxie group

If this is gonna go on we should probably take it to rudeness

@The-N-U-T-Cracker

I know they’re older than me and it’s bound to happen but that doesn’t really change anything…

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@StarryWolfy flash_on

Yeets hugs at Ella
I have no clue what's happening, but I'm offering hugs anyway….

person_off
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If this is gonna go on we should probably take it to rudeness

does it have to?

person_off
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Yeets hugs at Ella
I have no clue what's happening, but I'm offering hugs anyway….

A chat of people older that her was talking about sex, which makes Ella really uncomfortable

person_off
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MOSTLY people older than her, I should say

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@Moxie group

If this is gonna go on we should probably take it to rudeness

does it have to?

I mean no
But you jsut said you don't want this to turn into the last venting chat
Soooo if this is gonna go in we should probably take it to rudeness

person_off
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If this is gonna go on we should probably take it to rudeness

does it have to?

I mean no

Agreed

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@StarryWolfy flash_on

Yeets hugs at Ella
I have no clue what's happening, but I'm offering hugs anyway….

A chat of people older that her was talking about sex, which makes Ella really uncomfortable

Okay, as a fellow writer, I can see why that would be uncomfortable. It shouldn't matter if they're older or younger, that's a topic that can be delicate.

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@Moxie group

If this is gonna go on we should probably take it to rudeness

does it have to?

I mean no
But you just said you don't want this to turn into the last venting chat
Soooo if this is gonna go in we should probably take it to rudeness

Agreed

Okay look. Is this conversation gonna continue or not??

person_off
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If this is gonna go on we should probably take it to rudeness

does it have to?

I mean no
But you just said you don't want this to turn into the last venting chat
Soooo if this is gonna go in we should probably take it to rudeness

Agreed

Okay look. Is this conversation gonna continue or not??

No

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@Moxie group

Cool then we're done here.

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I hate writer's block! I have great stories that I've been working on, know where I want them to go, but I'm having trouble getting them there!

@Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

I hate writer's block! I have great stories that I've been working on, know where I want them to go, but I'm having trouble getting them there!

Can you give us an example?

person_off
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Lol– you act like you're so much older than Ella.
Just relax okay? The topic was moot anyway, headband said his piece and that was it.

person_off
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Lol– you act like you're so much older than Ella.
Just relax okay? The topic was moot anyway, headband said his piece and that was it.

I am older than her??
And we've moved on

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@Moxie group

If we've moved on why did you reply?

person_off
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:D

person_off
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For the last time: I am not letting what happened to the last venting chat happen here. Anonymity brings confidence, and I understand that, but we have to keep it under control.

person_off
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Eris, big letters bother me.

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@Moxie group

First of all, for the record I would 100% have this conversation with you irl and I would say the same excat things I'm saying now
Second of all, I offered to take this to the chat where this sort of stuff is supposed to happen

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@Moxie group

Eris, big letters bother me.

Then why do you do them so much?

person_off
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Eris, big letters bother me.

Then why do you do them so much?

I'm showing her how it feels.
And it was directed at Eris, not you.

person_off
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First of all, for the record I would 100% have this conversation with you irl and I would say the same excat things I'm saying now

If that's what you say.

Second of all, I offered to take this to the chat where this sort of stuff is supposed to happen

And I said we should just move on.

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@Moxie group

Wow. I bet that really hurt her.
Oh I know, dw

person_off
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Eris, big letters bother me.

It's a smiley face?

relax.

Just relax.