when the people in one of your “priority chats” are talking about a subject that causes you a lot of irrational panic and you want to ask them to stop but it’s not your chat to moderate so you ignore the notifications, checking every 30 or so minutes to see if they’ve changed conversations yet but they just keep talking, getting worse and worse each time so you just have to suck it up and try not to cry even though you’re visibly shaking and terrified and why am I like this, I’m so sick of being the worthless little weakling I am and I just want it to all go away-
Okay but can I be honest we're discussing things for writing purposes and it is a chat of people mostly older that you so like… : /
Unpopular opinion: people are still allowed to be uncomfortable, no matter what the purposes of the discussion are or how tame the discussion is. You don't have to understand their reasoning or thought process to respect that.
I'm not saying she can't be uncomfortable I'm just saying that she should understand there's going to be things like that on a chat of people older that her