THE FAM CHAT

M'kay, will do
Thanks for also accepting me
The young child who has a lot to say and might not always say it in the right way

M'kay, will do
Thanks for also accepting me
The young child who has a lot to say and might not always say it in the right way

no, yeah dude, it's totally okay
I was exactly like you once tbh
but uh then I realized that I am LGBTQ+ so uh yeah that was fun lol
but I totally relate

How does one know if they are LGBTQ… I am a confuzzled child. I confuse myself.

How does one know if they are LGBTQ… I am a confuzzled child. I confuse myself.

It's hard to explain……

How does one know if they are LGBTQ… I am a confuzzled child. I confuse myself.

Um….well….do you feel straight? And cis-gendered? XD sorry, I'm not sure.

Lol. Nah I know I'm cis gendered. I'm questioning whether I'm aromatic or not.

Lol. Nah I know I'm cis gendered. I'm questioning whether I'm aromatic or not.

Welp. I am, so maybe I can help? Describe what you feel.

I gtg now y'all

G'night

How does one know if they are LGBTQ… I am a confuzzled child. I confuse myself.

We all go through a questioning process (in fact, the Q stand for both queer and questioning)
when I started really learning more about the community (specifically bisexuality) I was like… I kinda might be that? Girls are really cute? so I was questioning for several months (it got really intense during pride month (june) 2017) and then at the end of july, I told my ace best friend that I was questioning. And over the next few weeks things just kinda clicked in my brain and my heart.
As for figuring out that I was asexual, I was actually consciously self id-ing with a sexuality now. But like, the more I thought about having sex with girls I was like… no that's not right for me I'm not into that. but like… they're cute and I wouldn't mind kissing them? And I realized I felt the same way about boys, I just wasn't feeling any sexual attraction towards anyone.
and I also learned about how aces rarely get crushes and often get crushes later in life, and, having a total of 4 crushes in my lifetime, with the first when I was 14 or 15, I was like, yep, this makes sense, this is who I am.
And being Christian and LGBTQ+ I've def had to go through a lot of reconciliation between two sides of my identity.
Anyways, it's a process. Don't rush it. And if you're questioning, and you realize you're cis/het, then don't worry about it- that's cool too =D

oh woah that took me a long time lol sorry

I gtg now y'all

G'night

Night, dad! hugs Sly love you <3

@ShadeStar listen to Kat she's smart and right about most things.

@ShadeStar listen to Kat she's smart and right about most things.

aww thanks lol
good night Alice!

Lol it's fine and okay. I've never really been into like romantic relationships and stuff. And my last crush was a few years back, during a weird phase in life. So I figured I might be ace, but then I remembered I've always been a pretty sexual person so I'm thinking romance is more of my no go. So yeah, aromatic is probably me.

aww thanks lol
good night Alice!

Are you leaving, Kat?

oh nvm I thought you were

Lol

Nope, just saying bye to dad. Sorry for the confusion.

Lol it's fine and okay. I've never really been into like romantic relationships and stuff. And my last crush was a few years back, during a weird phase in life. So I figured I might be ace, but then I remembered I've always been a pretty sexual person so I'm thinking romance is more of my no go. So yeah, aromatic is probably me.

Well there you go. Seems like you've got yourself all figured out.

Lol it's fine and okay. I've never really been into like romantic relationships and stuff. And my last crush was a few years back, during a weird phase in life. So I figured I might be ace, but then I remembered I've always been a pretty sexual person so I'm thinking romance is more of my no go. So yeah, aromatic is probably me.

yeah see you already know some things about yourself!
and like if you're just figuring out what gender you're attracted to that will come in time
and also varying degrees
like I'm def bi and like both but I'm not split 50/50 between guys and girls
so you could be like… 90% girls and 10% boys or whatever
sexuality is kinda fluid lol
at least when you're bi

Fluidity, but yeah. I always think I'm figured out and then anxiety hits and start questioning again. My never ending life cycle.

Fluidity, but yeah. I always think I'm figured out and then anxiety hits and start questioning again. My never ending life cycle.

off that's rough
but yeah
you can question for as long as you need to
don't rush it
Like I said, I id-ed as bisexual for several months before deciding that asexual/biromantic was a better fit

Thanks.

@ShadeStar listen to Kat she's smart and right about most things.

^^^

Thanks.

no problem! that's what I'm here for
also snacks
as oldest sis I'm on snack duty lol

Lol. Yep. She is the all mighty. Bow in her presence.

gasp we should make a Kat Society!

YES!

WAIT WHAT
NO
I'M ALREADY PART OF THE AWESOME SENPAI LORD andrew (Our Supreme Lord and Overseer) SOCIETY
DON'T MAKE A CULT AROUND ME

Awwwwwww. Kat doesn't want it so…..