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The LGBTQ+ Community Chat :) Part 2!

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@requiemisback language

oof
speaking of playlists
i made an ENAwave playlist cuz i was bored and totally not cuz i'm gay for Ena um

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/06wXdNRtiYGGZtINDSqHZV

@berlioz

Weird gender problem- wanting to wear flowy chiffon headscarves tichel and hijab style and feeling really good and real ~fetching~ in them, but not wearing them out in public because for no (objective) reason at all they have an incredibly strong womanly connotation and you don't wanna be mistaken for a woman more than you already are 👁👄👁
So you look up masculine wrap styles but they're mostly for desert wear, and you do live in a desert, but not that kinda desert and you don't like the way you look in those styles anyway so you just 👁👄👁

… only ever wear the style you feel nice in but never wear it out because then it doesn't feel nice even though you want it to

@berlioz

Heyo!
So I’ve tentatively come to the conclusion that I’m biromantic (I don’t know about my sexuality yet). But I’m super hesitant to give myself a set-in-stone label since I have no experience with relationships at all. I’ve always found girls really attractive, but whenever I thought about it I always passed it off as a passing thing until recently when I allowed myself to really consider it. As much as I research about pansexuality and bisexuality, it all gets really confusing because I don’t want to disregard any other gender or non-binary person.

Anyway if any of you have any advice or experiences related to this I would greatly appreciate hearing it :) But if not I would also love just to hang out on this thread if you’ll have me <3

Welcome to the thread! My only advice is if you're hesitant to give yourself a label, don't. "Queer" is a reclaimed slur for the most part, and a catch all term for anyone who's not straight. Until you find the right word to express your sexuality/romantic orientation (which might take time or experience or both!), identifying as queer might take the pressure of picking a specific label off your shoulders.

eco
@ClownB*tch eco

Heyo!
So I’ve tentatively come to the conclusion that I’m biromantic (I don’t know about my sexuality yet). But I’m super hesitant to give myself a set-in-stone label since I have no experience with relationships at all. I’ve always found girls really attractive, but whenever I thought about it I always passed it off as a passing thing until recently when I allowed myself to really consider it. As much as I research about pansexuality and bisexuality, it all gets really confusing because I don’t want to disregard any other gender or non-binary person.

Anyway if any of you have any advice or experiences related to this I would greatly appreciate hearing it :) But if not I would also love just to hang out on this thread if you’ll have me <3

there's also this thing called polysexuality, where you don't necessarily like all genders but you like more than male and female.

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@lavender_ladybug group

Heyo!
So I’ve tentatively come to the conclusion that I’m biromantic (I don’t know about my sexuality yet). But I’m super hesitant to give myself a set-in-stone label since I have no experience with relationships at all. I’ve always found girls really attractive, but whenever I thought about it I always passed it off as a passing thing until recently when I allowed myself to really consider it. As much as I research about pansexuality and bisexuality, it all gets really confusing because I don’t want to disregard any other gender or non-binary person.

Anyway if any of you have any advice or experiences related to this I would greatly appreciate hearing it :) But if not I would also love just to hang out on this thread if you’ll have me <3

Welcome to the thread! My only advice is if you're hesitant to give yourself a label, don't. "Queer" is a reclaimed slur for the most part, and a catch all term for anyone who's not straight. Until you find the right word to express your sexuality/romantic orientation (which might take time or experience or both!), identifying as queer might take the pressure of picking a specific label off your shoulders.

Tysm for the welcome! That’s good advice, I think I will stick with queer the time being <3 it does sound like it would feel a lot lighter than the pressure of a label

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@lavender_ladybug group

Heyo!
So I’ve tentatively come to the conclusion that I’m biromantic (I don’t know about my sexuality yet). But I’m super hesitant to give myself a set-in-stone label since I have no experience with relationships at all. I’ve always found girls really attractive, but whenever I thought about it I always passed it off as a passing thing until recently when I allowed myself to really consider it. As much as I research about pansexuality and bisexuality, it all gets really confusing because I don’t want to disregard any other gender or non-binary person.

Anyway if any of you have any advice or experiences related to this I would greatly appreciate hearing it :) But if not I would also love just to hang out on this thread if you’ll have me <3

there's also this thing called polysexuality, where you don't necessarily like all genders but you like more than male and female.

Good to know! I’ll keep it in mind, ty!

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@Becfromthedead group

So I came out to my friends as a she/they :)
And another one of my friends also asked if we could start using he/him for him.
So we're all out here with gender confusion ahdjdkls

@ghosthugs__

hell yeah gender confused friend group :D

@berlioz

Congrats on coming out!

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laughs in dysphoric

eco
@ClownB*tch eco

that… that much true for me too

@ghosthugs__

same dude :(

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we're all gay and dysphoric, welcome to the club

@Musical_Queen

My mom watching my door close at 2am: Good, she's going to bed
Hears Jeremy Jordan through my door: She's not going to bed anytime soon

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KHJBJFVHGDYHFRFY I LOVE JEREMY JORDAN

group

im officially dead, a girl in class made us churros and they are divine

:0 churros are amazing

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She didn't have the proper piping back so they're disks but dear god she even brought us homemade chocolate sauce

@cryptic-glitch

luckyyyyy

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@spacebluelily language

luuuuckkkky
Recently, my mom bought me and my brother churros from churroholic.
It had been a while since I had a churro, but damn, are they good.

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@requiemisback language

i haven't had churros in forever
i like literally cannot remember the last time i had a churro

Had the opportunity to have churros last night, went with fried ice cream instead because idk?? It just sounded more the vibe I guess

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@spacebluelily language

fried ice cream, huh? that sounds…interesting.

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@requiemisback language

oh heck yeah fried ice cream is great
10/10 would recommend to anyone who hasn't tried it tbh

@cryptic-glitch

oooh fried ice cream is tasty

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Fried anything screams fair food to me
have ya'll had fried butter before?

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@requiemisback language

i haven't had fried butter no
but boy am i tempted now

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Make sure it's covered in chocolate it's very good

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@spacebluelily language

i'm scared with all these fried foods around…
anywho, rosalynn can I dm you?
i wanna get to know you too 👉👈

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@requiemisback language

anywho, rosalynn can I dm you?

yes ofc you can!! :D