The LGBTQ+ Community Chat :) Part 2!

Me: goes to take a piss
Random woman I bumped into: stares at my chest in confusion

This man is an icon

i love him so much omg
like,,,facts

This man is an icon

i love him so much omg
like,,,facts

👏👏👏👏

My type tends to be either really tall or really tiny? And they gotta be a geek or a dork, and okay with LOTS of physical contact(I'm touch-starved okay leave me alone unless it's a hug kslanv). And fuckin gingers are just dslavn aaaaaaaaaaa but also like,,,any hair color? Gingers just get me the most but also if you got brown, blond, black or dyed hair YOU'RE PROBABLY STILL MY TYPE IF YOU'RE A GEEK/DORK WHO LIKES CUDDLING. Gender can be thrown out the window, I literally do not care lol, you wanna be perceived as feminine? Cool, if you're like what I said then you're my type!! Masc? Still probably my type!! Androgynous?? Guess what??? Still probably my type!!

Idk man I just want someone who'll ramble with me about the things I rant about while we're cuddling ddslkanv

ok so idk if anyone saw my last post in here but i’m questioning my romantic orientation 👍✌️👌
i’m not sure if i’m aro anymore because i think i might have a crush on this girl in my asl class??? idk if i’m like on the aro spectrum maybe and also lesbian??? i’m still ace but idk i’m just confused

Ah yes. The aspec confusion. As a VERY romantic ace I can't give you much advice there but I've heard that squishes are a thing? Like where you REALLY want to be someone's friend? Idk if they're ever confused with crushes(again, I am not aro by any means) but I've heard of it? Is there like,,, demiromantic, maybe? Grey-romantic? I'd imagine the aro spectrum is pretty similar to the ace one(probably, but if I'm wrong let me know)

Mmmmm, I just wanna be kissed, like just someone holds my head with their hands and kisses me, like tall or short I don't care.

You could be asexual while liking someone;
Asexual just means you don't think sexually of her. Or, you don't go for the sexual… parts-
I don't really know, But I hope this helped lol-

yeah i’m not confused about the asexual part, i know whatever i’m feeling it’s not sexual

Ah yes. The aspec confusion. As a VERY romantic ace I can't give you much advice there but I've heard that squishes are a thing? Like where you REALLY want to be someone's friend? Idk if they're ever confused with crushes(again, I am not aro by any means) but I've heard of it? Is there like,,, demiromantic, maybe? Grey-romantic? I'd imagine the aro spectrum is pretty similar to the ace one(probably, but if I'm wrong let me know)

i thought of her as a squish at first but now i’m not sure if my feelings are platonic or romantic. i don’t really even understand romantic attraction/crushes. for comparison i have like two other squishes and i know that my feelings toward them are purely platonic

for a little background info, like i said i thought it was a squish at first. then i walk into class one day and i’m like “OHMYGOSHSHESSOCUTE” and was gay panicking the rest of class. and like i try not to stare and hope she doesn’t notice and my heart starts kind of beating faster but i’m not 100% sure if it’s because of her or from climbing the stairs in my out of shape body cause it’s my one class upstairs.

Just a reminder there're a ton of definitions here for ace and aro spec folk, as well as questioning https://www.notebook.ai/forum/topic-q-a/asexuality-and-aromanticism

idk i might be greyaromantic??

G A É

gaé is me-

I’m. I’m very Bi and ready to Cri.

im pan-ace

I’m like. Bi and aro.