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The LGBTQ+ Community Chat :) Part 2!

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@saor_illust school

AAAAAAAAAAA
IM THROWING HANDS WTF

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-grabs my mallet- Who am I killing?!? I GO ALL JASON ON THEIR ASSES!!

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@SpookyScarySnoteleks group

braid their arteries

I-
Wh-
I mean-
Uh-
Okay then

@The-N-U-T-Cracker

I think I’m putting too much faith into them. They seemed really cool (and some of them still are) but the more I learn the worse it gets.
Unfortunately, no matter what I do I cannot escape them as they are, in fact, irl friends that go to all the homeschool dances and are generally liked by my family
plus if I had to tell my parents that the reason I stopped associating with them is cause they’re “transphobic assholes” I would probably be grounded and forced to Ben Shapiro for a month

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@Becfromthedead group

:( Sorry Ella
My family is the big transphobic too…
My mom works with a lot of LGBT students but still misgenders them, says things like "a girl who wants to be a boy" in describing trans boys, and she's explicitly told me to not bring up the fact that my fiance has 2 siblings who don't id with their birth genders (one's a trans guy, the other is an enby). Also my fiance uses they/them pronouns, but that sounds like something my family will never know. (Just keep thinking I'm straight, guys….)
Like is it really that hard to be respectful? I know it's easy to be disrespectful towards things you don't understand, but even effort to learn can go a long way.

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@Becfromthedead group

However, Ella, I will say, your friends are still young and have time to change. So they might be terrible now, but they aren't hopeless forever necessarily.

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OK SO we have a problem. One of my close friends recently came out as transgender and I keep on accidentally calling him his old name/pronouns out of habit. I feel terrible everytime I do, and I'm sure he does too, so I need help breaking the habit. Any advice on how I can break out of this habit? Or should I just try my best to call him the correct name/pronouns until it becomes a habit??

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@Becfromthedead group

Just catch and correct yourself, and move on. If it helps, maybe in your own time, write/talk about him to yourself so you get more practice? I promise it'll eventually set in, as long as you make the effort and as long as at your core, you respect his gender identity.

@RedTheLoveless

Also, don't freak out about it. Just correct yourself and move on, maybe throw in an apology after or when you two are alone.

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@larcenistarsonist group

the human who puts the pan in panic has arrived haha
HELLO FELLOW QUEERS ah im awkward around other LGBTQIAPK+ peeps cuz i live in a tiny religious town in the middle of idaho so im probably the only queer in a 50 mile radius

HELLO THERE!!
I’m Max, use they/them, genderfluid, and I put the bi in bilingual ig

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@tomat brightness_7

ah im awkward around other LGBTQIAPK+ peeps cuz i live in a tiny religious town in the middle of idaho so im probably the only queer in a 50 mile radius

yes mee too let's stick together

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@larcenistarsonist group

ah im awkward around other LGBTQIAPK+ peeps cuz i live in a tiny religious town in the middle of idaho so im probably the only queer in a 50 mile radius

yes mee too let's stick together

yeehaw

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@larcenistarsonist group

I'm MJ, just a regular high schooler who wants to graduate and move to LA. She/her pronouns but I'm also chill with they/them, and uh just a pansexual who puts the PAN IN PANIC

eco
@ClownB*tch eco

ok i'm feeling so euphoric rn and im just vibin here, i got my music, it's raining, i'm not dysphoric, life's pretty good rn

eco
@ClownB*tch eco

i hope yall can feel this way if you dont (tho i do think in my case it's just a bit of mania cuz i was super depressed for the last 24 hours but i dont care imma enjoy dis)

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@Becfromthedead group

Glad you're feeling good.
My fiance and I had our 4th anniversary today. We picked up some Indian food and ate outside in this nice weather we're having for once.

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@larcenistarsonist group

ohmigosh that's sweet!! :DDDDDD

I had a crap day, but I'm glad to see you guys are really happy! :DD

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Good morning for those on the EST timeframe, I have literally no concept of time anywhere else, so if it's morning there too, good morning I guess.

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Good morning.

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@saor_illust school

thats awesome to hear, alex and bec !!

and good morning (please ignore the fact that it's currently 3am)

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Having a good sleeping schedule is key Izzy!
I personally, go to bed at 8 and wake up at 4:30!

@berlioz

Goodmorning (6:30, tired af)

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@SpookyScarySnoteleks group

Morning! (8:30, very tired, don't wanna be productive today)

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@nebula__ group

gOod morning, even though it's like 8:26 a.m and my day started at 4 a.m

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djamksd same

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@nebula__ group

i must know, am i the only one craving a bag of chips right now- because it sure does feel like it hhh

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MMMM A PERSON CALLED ME HOT TO MY FACE WHAT THE FUCK
I'M NOT USED TO THIS!

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@nebula__ group

o H

school
@saor_illust school

:00
dw you'll get used to it soon enough