God I really wanna kick this one guy out of a club I'm in at school.
He's fucking exhausting, and not a very nice person. Rest of our core members called him out one day (after 2 whole years of letting him say whatever shit he wants), and they're giving him a "second chance" even though we should've booted him a long ass time ago. No one actually likes him, but honestly my friends are acting so high and mighty about "being the bigger person" and giving second chances. They even say he seems to be changing for the better (which I think he's just walking on eggshells bc people don't change that fast).
I'm usually a sweetheart, but honestly, I'm fed up. It's unfair to our other members whom he makes uncomfortable. Sure, he hasn't done anything explicitly "bad" since being called out 2-3 weeks ago, but he's still a little shit, and I'm out here looking like a dick because I don't think he even deserved that "second chance."
But yeah, he got called out for being blatantly transphobic in front of my enby friend and the rest of the people present also were LGBTQ so it didn't go over well.
Also he's lowkey misogynistic and I don't want to know some of his other views.
I'm waiting for another slip up so I get to yell and kick him out myself
Be the bigger person my ass. Who cares?! If he deserves to be kicked out then do it. If nobody wants him there and if he's only causing trouble, kick his ass out of there. God, I hate people like that.
This reminds me of a conversation between me and my friend.
"Be the bigger person," My friend after some asshole said something.
"NO, I AM 5'3" AND SPITEFUL AND BITTER. YOU BE THE BIGGER PERSON." Me, marching off to put that asshole in his place.