What is happening here and why are frogs brought in the conversation so confused

No one believes me when I say they’re pretty

is it smart to tell my best friend that I'm questioning my gender and if so how do I do it

If you trust your friend and think they'll be supportive, yes, absolutely.

^^^

Girls of color are wow

Yes

Hi can I appear back onto this chat with a questionato?

Okay so I’m most likely Bi and not comfortable with investigating that right now, but one thing I am squinting at suspiciously is me possibly being on the spectrum of asexuality?

I always called myself a grey ace which makes sense in my relationship right now.

aaah this is really weird to say and please don’t take it weird

I woke up with a nightmare a couple days ago where essentially my bf was “pushing” the boundaries in which I am comfortable with considering physical/sexual stuff.

It wasn’t bad— of course I woke up right in the middle of it so it could’ve gone anywhere— but I can’t stop thinking about it and I really need to talk to Nate about it, but I’m also incredibly confused and don’t want that to happen in real life.

SO NOW i just want to talk about it because I really want to reintroduce being ace to myself again. I had originally told myself I’m just Bi, for I am comfortable with some stuff, like kissing or whatever. . Then after a month and now that I’m more comfortable in this relationship, things are starting to surface that I hadn’t thought of before. Like being terrified of pushing over my boundaries. Like REALLY intimate stuff. Like… Idk if it’s a phobia or aceness or what but yes

(It definitely sounds like Bi-Ace but take your time, also tread carefully with the guy. If he did it once he’ll almost definitely do it again. )

Nononono he didn’t do it

I DREAMED he did

which is scary enough on its own

Nate’s a good guy and deep down somewhere I know he wouldn’t do it, but I’m basically being a bitch pansy and anxious that it might come to that

Sorry, my bad. I read it wrong o-o. You should definitely talk about it if it makes you anxious though. Honesty is important.

ok thank

thanks for helping with hashing out my feels lmao

Anytime

why tf is everyone so frickin adorable?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!!!!?!!

Hey can someone help me with deciding if someone actually likes me? I suck at determining things like that.

Hey can someone help me with deciding if someone actually likes me? I suck at determining things like that.

Yeah sure what be the situation

Alright, I'm about to have to go, but here's the run-down.

He tells me that he likes me. I tell him that I like him. So we decide that we're talking. He's acting abnormally sweet towards me, calling me this new nickname, 'sweetheart'. I mean, it sounds like he likes me, but honestly I'm not sure because I'm always confused. He's giving me these loving signals, but I don't feel like we're getting anywhere? It's been like a week since we told each-other our feelings? Am I just going too fast with things, or impatient? Or does he feel unsure of his feels?

Ok it could go one of two ways:

• He really does like you and doesn’t really know how to express that individuality and you should support him and be honest.
• He’s pretending for some reason and you should break ties ASAP

hi guys

I think, maybe, he’s just unsure how to portray it to you. Especially if you guys don’t spend a lot of outside time together in phone calls or dates. So maybe to help out and scope it better, I’d invite him on a date or two.

Thanks for the help you two!

Um, hello. I'm new, but saw this chat. I am still not 100% sure if I am bisexual, lesbian, or pansexual, but I am still figuring that out. And I just came out to one of my best friends. He actually came out to me a couple months ago but then fell of the radar, but I am happy to announce that we are, as he said "Bi-Buddies"

Heyo! I’m Nat, I’m pan and I give advice so yeah welcome.

Hi @Musical_Queen ! I'm Whisper, Bisexual and Genderfluid Tsundere at your service! Welcome! (P.S. I'm a momma to a lot of people on this website, so if you need mothering, I'm always available! lol)

Welcome to the chat. I'm Ace, but yall can call me Red. I am who I am and I like who I like. I'm the local cryptid and anti-villain of the site.