Only if you’re married and you carry the rights to the house with them should you tell them.
If you don't feel like you can trust them with it while you're dating, don't tell them once you're married. Nothing's gonna change about their trustworthiness and lack of murderiness because you signed a piece of paper that makes it harder for them to legally leave you
Also if you get divorced, don't have a spare key for like, a year, just to be safe, and yes absolutely change your locks. Also do that if there's been any break-ins near you
okay but I’m a crazy bitch who barely trusts people to begin with so maybe I’m just overthinking it lmao
I’m glad we can agree with locks though