Well this is FUN

I don’t think so. But perhaps give us more data.

Right. We need a fullgrasp of your circumstance.

Mhm.
Sounds like abuse to me, Emi.

Well I’ve talked about stuff he’s done to me before. I feel (meaning I’m not sure if it counts) like he insults me by calling me stupid and a freak for not wanting to do stuff with him/stay in my room or do something wrong. He’s yelled at me for stupid things, like trying and talking to my sister as we eat (in a completely civil conversation). He’s also called me filthy and my room a pigsty (I told a trusted adult this (who is the mother of multiple sons) and she’s said this is totally normal for a teenager???).

He doesn’t lash out at me, but he’s threatened me with it. He occasionally in the car hits my left thigh pretty hard to the beat of a song we’re listening to, and I have to push him off but that’s all I really remember.

Emi. That's mental and emotional abuse.
Sounds like an asshole, honestly.
Being with friends helps.

He doesn’t lash out at me, but he’s threatened me with it. He occasionally in the car hits my left thigh pretty hard to the beat of a song we’re listening to, and I have to push him off but that’s all I really remember.

That's also lowkey physical abuse.

Emi. That's mental and emotional abuse.
Sounds like an asshole, honestly.

That’s what I thought but my friend and her mum think different.

The problem is that many abusers don’t know they are doing it. And in fact would be horrified if you suggested it. Even though there may well be evidence.

Mhm. Some of them do it because it's the only thing they know how to do. My friend's dad was abusive like that.

I’m sure your dad would just get mad if you said he was abusing you, resulting in not good. But what would he do if he somehow believed someone else who told him?

I’m not sure how he would react at all. He’s just unpredictable like that.

sigh

Well I’m going to go get food. Wish me luck…

Unpredictable parents aren't a good sign.
I'd know.

Hi I’m back. The only thing that changed was that he blamed me for a game he lost and put it on me.

Other than this, I’m feeling a lot better. I’m dreading my mom coming home, though.

Shit, Emi, I’m not a professional, but that’s abuse

It’s fantastic that you’re feeling better, and try not to worry too much about your mom
It’ll all be fine in the end, you gotta believe that

Oh. Sorry about that Emi.

How are your pigs doing?

Thanks loves, I really really appreciate all of this. I might call a child help line but Idk if I should…

They’re doing alright. One grew a couple abscesses (one fucking burst) and we’re basically neglecting them because they’re so low on hay.

Oh. I see.
Wish you the best, Emi!

Guinea pigs.

I have a pair of fluffy little rodent dudes.

They are very fluffy!
Fluffy bois!

I'm deceased
I'm happy things are slowly working out Emi but i do think that you should get some help.

I can see why you hate actual pigs (not guinea pigs Emi, just thought I'd clarify).
Noisy bastards.
They try to eat anything that sticks out too.

Eris you're on the tea trend to?
I started the tea trend I'll have you know!
Jensen poured salt in their Apple tea and I suggested they change their name to SaltyAppleTea!

Wow

Ooooh do you guys want a picture of my piggles? It helped me cheer up in school and on the bus today!

Ooooh do you guys want a picture of my piggles? It helped me cheer up in school and on the bus today!

heck yeah