I really need to learn to just let the annoyances go away on their own
but hon. sy is a very smart guy. hes an adult, who's been on here I think longer than I have. hes witnessed what things get certain groups of people upset, such as the horribly ableist things in that book. he knew. I would bet money on it, even if he looked me in the eyes and said he didnt
please, stop defending someone as though they arent at fault for their actions. please, stop acting like you arent either. everyone is well aware that just because your emotions are valid doesnt make them or the actions following healthy or okay. because you choose those. not your mental illness