Personally, I'm terrified about whether or not I'll ever find the right person.
I really am.
I've been surrounded by love-gone-wrong all my life and I am so fucking scared that'll be me.
Okay. There is no such thing as The One. Very disappointing for me to understand, as I am a romantic. But you can make it work with anyone if you both put in the work. So as long as you find someone that's willing to sacrifice for you, and you aren't a jerk to them, you're grucci. I mean, try to find someone like you, but yeah.
I 100% agree with this. I think being compatible is pretty important, like with similar interests and willingness to learn to do what the other person loves, but that works into putting in time and effort.
Also spending time with them def helps too, even if they’re super busy, take at least 15 minutes or so every day to talk to them