ok so i feel like i’ve talked about this before, but my best friend is one of the only people i’m out to on my softball team, and i have a crush on one of the other girls on the same team, and my best friend knows that i like her, but she likes to talk really loudly about my crush and my sexuality when we’re talking privately while the team is around and i don’t know how to tell her how to either stop talking about when we’re with everyone else or just start keeping her voice down in a nice way, because i really don’t want some of the other girls to know. does anyone have any ideas of what i could do? i’ve tried talking about it to her privately, but she’ll stop for like a week and then start doing it again.
Remind her when she does it. If she keeps it up, just keep reminding her. She's going to get it eventually if she's really a good friend, and she probably is, so no worries.